Family

I define the word family as someone you cant imagine not in your life. Weather that be a good thing or bad? There are many degrees of family there is the family you stuck with like mom, dad, brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, uncles etc. Then you have the family you choose like your friends and neighbors that you choose to involve in you life and there is the dreaded in law factor! OK I know not all in laws are scary and its true I have some great in laws but I also have some I would choose not to have in my life. Like family you don't get to choose the in laws either the person you choose to share your life with brings them and then you siblings bring them and well that's not always fun. I have made a promise to myself that my family will only consist of the people I choose. If i feel that someone is good for my life then I hope to keep them in my life. I am so blessed to have the family I have! Lately my "family" has been going threw changes and as far as I'm concerned I'm think its all for the best. Finally someone I haven't wanted any where near my family for a long time is gone and I believe that it is the bets for all party's. Hopefully now I can have a better relationship with members of my family that she has pulled away from me. I'm so happy with my life and I hope to only make it better and to expand my family!